Sooooo I’ve wanted to post this for a while but I never could really get my thoughts straight and to be honest, My thoughts still aren’t completely together so please excuse any jumping around I may do. I’m just typing as I think.
I’ve noticed something a lot in the Sims community, in roleplaying communities, in general, to be honest, that there’s a lot of abuse going on that I feel like no one seems to catch. I know I said abuse and that sounds scary, but honestly what I’ve witnessed from my own experiences and what I just see going on is scary.
I see so many people pair off and become friends with each other which is fantastic, but sometimes one of the people becomes controlling and manipulative. They tend to isolate their friend away from everyone or anyone they don’t like. Isolation is a form of abuse. I see things go down with friends and the immediate subposts about how sad Toxic person is, how they should just leave because no one cares about them. About how they never should have tried. They post things to guilt the victim and make them feel guilty about whatever it is they’ve done. Whether its talking to someone other than them, branching out and gaining new friends or just not going along with something they want.
Guilting is a form of abuse.
If you have friends that
Beg you not to talk to someone. Tell you shit about said person to make them seem like a terrible horrible person.
Get angry and subpost /subtweet about how they feel ignored, how they should just delete everything and leave, how no one likes them. ect
Get upset when you can’t reply or don’t feel like replying and make it out to be “their fault” and that you’re ignoring them on purpose.
Get upset/petty/bitter about you trying to branch out and talk to other people besides them.
Become paranoid about new friendships.
Try to keep you from interacting with anyone else
Make you feel shitty for something you’ve done that wasn’t the way they wanted.
Then you may want to reevaluate your friendship with said person. Someone shouldn’t make you feel bad about doing things that make you happy. They shouldn’t get jealous of new friends, they shouldn’t make a big deal about you being unable to reply.
I dunno. I see a lot of shit and I just wanted to get the information out there because I don’t think people see it as abusive when it really is.
Allllllll of this. Rp is supposed to be fun, not toxic. If you do any of this, please change. If you notice your friend doing this, talk to them about it and if change doesn’t happen, cut off the friendship
Welcome to Walt University! Home of the Pegasus! Even though we’ve grown up there’s still much to learn. Here at Walt U, we want to ensure the best education possible for all of your needs. We have many things to do around campus from dining to hanging out, our campus has everything you need to make your years here enjoyable. We have a wide variety of sports teams and after-school clubs and activities for you to choose from as well as job opportunities. Make the most of your college experience here at Walt U and become a Pegasus today!
Name: Etsy Lorelai Carter Nickname: None Age: 19 Gender: Non-Binary Sexuality: Pansexual Marital Status: Single Ethnicity: White/Caucasian Nationality: American Children: None Family: Mother, father, step-mother, 3 younger half-siblings, and an older sister Hometown: Los Angeles, California Current Residence: Los Angeles, California Occupation: Influencer
E X T R A
Likes: Fashion, a clean Instagram theme, coffee, the color yellow, traveling, & kittens Dislikes: Socks & sandals, small talk, people who wont try new things Strengths: Confident Weaknesses: Impulsive, not the best listener Introvert/Extrovert: Extrovert Style: Girly, on-trend, more often body-con, & lots of sandals Habits: Forcing her friends to take 100 pics of her so she can use them for social media Hobbies: Vlogging, & traveling Skills: Talking and convincing people to do things Other: Allergic to dogs Twitter:@etsyso
Also like, if you ever wanna collab or rp don’t be afraid to message me? Like not even for a challenge or anything, it’s 100% ok to come into my IM like “HEY CAN OUR OCS HANG??”
backstreetsims 